Christian Father Clings to Jesus After Wife Commits Suicide, Arson and Filicide
By Faith Magbanua, June 09, 2017 23:06 PM
Miguel Arnau, a Christian father who was in the middle of a difficult divorce with his wife, is now clinging to his faith after his wife Carola Arnau, took matters into her own hands, fatally shooting their two children, the family dog, and later, setting their home in on fire before fatally shooting herself while Miguel was away at work
"Of all the things that could be going through his mind, he's talked only of praise to his savior and love for his wife and kids - over and over and over again," Arnau's pastor, Steve Crutchfield of Victory Church's Strasburg campus, told Lancaster Online during a prayer vigil for the family last Wednesday.
At about 3:20 a.m. Tuesday right after a fire call was made to the authorities, who then discovered the bodies of Arnau's wife, Carola, their 4-year-old son, Noah, their 10-year-old daughter, Bella, and the family dog.
The children were apparently murdered by their mother while they slept. Lancaster County Coroner Dr. Stephen Diamantoni said, Bella died from multiple gunshot wounds to her head while Noah was shot multiple times in his body. Carola died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound to her head.
Lancaster County District attorney Craig Stedman said in a press conference last Wednesday that the police found a handgun near Carola's body. He said that the gun was purchased the day before the murders.
The couple was going through a difficult divorce with a history of arguments and according to Stedman, the tragedy appears to have been triggered by the ongoing conflict. However, they are currently looking into evidence on Carola's mental state.
Stedman said even that though Miguel Arnau was living at the home at the time of the murders, he was staying in a separate garage which was also found ablaze when first responders arrived on the scene.
A neighbor told Penn Live that when Miguel Arnau arrived at the scene and learned what happened he was "hysterical, he was devastated."
A prayer vigil was then held on Wednesday, attended by a group of pastors and a number of community members tried to give him comfort.
"Any time there's a tragedy such as this, we need to grieve individually, but we also need to grieve as a community because the community as a whole has been affected," Tom Myers, the Pastor of High View Church of God and president of the Strasburg Ministerium, which hosted the vigil, said.
He said the family was an integral part of the community.
"They had friends in the (Lampeter-Strasburg) School District, attended the Presbyterian mid-week Bible studies. Noah was a student of the preschool at the Presbyterian church; they were part of our (VBS) vacation Bible school - so many places they have been involved in the community," Myers said. "So many lives have been touched."
Approximately 250 people joined in prayer and song at the vigil that was held on the lawn of the Strasburg Mennonite Church, which is less than half a mile from the Arnau home.
Pastor Crutchfield said Miguel Arnau told him the family had planned on celebrating Bella's birthday on Saturday and asked the gathering to sing her "Happy Birthday."
After the 20-minute vigil, a group of friends and clergy escorted the grieving father to a waiting vehicle where he was taken away.
"Miguel has been asking for peace from God," Crutchfield told the gathering on Wednesday. "I pray tonight that we can be part of that peace."
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